I will never understand why some people can't just view a happily married, happily pregnant mom as a good thing. Why people feel the need to tell us how happy they will be when we get "fixed" so that we can't have kids anymore is offensive to me, even in gest. I am THRILLED to be pregnant. I have three happy, healthy, well-cared for girls and this fourth baby will be just as happy and well cared for. That is all anyone else needs to know. I shouldn't let it bother me, but it does.