Really??

I am dealing with stress again! My potential new landlord has suddenly decided that she needs to discuss the rental with her husband who is away in Alberta. She has decided that he will get the final say who rents the place and if she changes her mind about renting to us, she will give back our deposit!!! So now, I don't even know for sure I have a place or not! I am at the point where I feel like, "just tell me I don't have it, give me back my deposit and I will move on!" You know?